Have you ever seen the bumper sticker: “If it feels good, do it!”? In many ways, that slogan characterizes the approach of so many people today. A stream of books, articles, commentary, advertisements, and dialogue points to feelings as the basic measure of happiness, as the truest aspect of one’s true self. Feelings are continually represented as central to self-fulfillment and the development of one’s potential. A popular psychiatrist-author states the “modern” perspective in no uncertain terms: “Being in touch with your feelings is the only way you can ever become your highest self, the only way you can […]